I did not think it was going to upset me this much but apparently it did as I could not stop thinking about it all day and here I am writing a post on it. I asked a couple of my friends and family to tell me what I should do to improve upon or what was "wrong with me" because I feel that I always find myself in situations similar to this. It makes me sad because I don't know what makes people dislike me and if I knew I would surely try to fix that because a good character is beloved to Allah.
Then I thought to myself, "why should I care that an insignificant ( and kafir) person does not like me!"
I don't think I would ever be that cruel to tell someone that I don't like them and reveal evidence of me backbiting them by stating that,"so and so also does not like you." Honestly those are the least of people anyone should care to please If I dislike someone its for the sake of Allah and nothing else. I can't think of anyone that I dislike personally alhamdulillah. There are people I choose to avoid for in order to protect my heart because I either believe they are not beneficial for my iman or in terms of improving myself in this dunya.
If you are every distraught or shaken by such things do not panic! Take refuge in Allah as it is he whom we should prioritize in pleasing and nothing supersedes Allah. For instance, if pleasing ones parents will cause for us to displease Allah know you have wronged yourself. If one focus on pleasing Allah and did not have intentions of wronging anyone, then one should not become distraught over it because its a lost case. If anything, this should only serve to humble us and cause us reflect upon our character.
May Allah fix our affairs and may he make beloved to which he loves and hate to which he hates Ameen.